Tickle Test
Sadly, this is pretty correct...What You Say
Okay, so you seem to have figured out that he can't read your mind. Good for you. But, you don't exactly say what you mean either. Datespeak requires a very difficult balancing act. Maintaining complete honesty in a dating situation is very complicated. You end up with a lot of tip-toeing around the heart of a subject. Saying what you mean can be awkward for both parties. But you've managed to find a way to cushion your words while hinting at the true meaning behind them. Good work. Whether this comes naturally for you or you've learned the hard way, you know that misleading a guy can result in a messy situation. You could be a little more direct when talking datespeak, but you're clearly not intending to avoid a topic altogether. Just be careful. If you like him, let him know. And if you don't, find a way to send him that message. It'll save both you and the guy some trouble if you refrain from speaking in code!
What You Believe
Hmmm...seems like you're not quite sure whether to trust him or not. You probably want to take what he says at face value, but there's some nagging part of you that just won't let you completely believe him. You definitely don't analyze his every word. Pat yourself on the back for that one. But you do keep your defenses up just in case. Unfortunately, cynicism has become a beneficial attribute for people submerged in the dating scene. Maybe in the beginning it's smart to look out for number one and refrain from trusting too easily. But you need to know that when a guy has proven his good intentions, it's time to put your questioning mind to rest. This is key to having a good relationship. Skepticism may protect you from getting hurt, but when you see a good thing on the horizon, make sure you show some trust. It's a smart woman who knows how to crack the datespeak code.
posted by Anne @ 12:13 AM
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